This is a subject I have spoken and written about
many times, yet it seems every year we have a few folks that just
seem to get riled up on the race course. This, in turn, riles up
more people or worse, drives them away from the Association. It
is so very important that we sail within the rules and that we act
like gentlemen on the water.
Yelling and screaming should not be the norm and it
will not be tolerated anymore. Just because you were involved in
a foul at one end of the course does not mean you have the right
to be angry with every other skipper on the lake. When we sail within
the rules, everyone wins. But when we forget, or worse, ignore the
rules, we all lose. When tempers flare, everyone on the lake is
effected by it.
The yelling also serves no purpose. It rarely changes
the outcome of the situation and, in most cases, spurs more yelling
and anger. When you are involved in a foul, all that is required
is polite conversation on the matter followed by one party protesting
and the other acknowledging the penalty or requesting it go to committee.
Even the best sailors will once in a while put their
boat in a situation that results in being protested. Acknowledging
the mistake and doing their penalty turn is usually the outcome
and often that skipper will call out that they completed their turn.
This Association is about having fun with our friends.
Winning races in friendly competition is just the added appeal.
Charging through a fleet and aggressively yelling at all in your
way is not part of what we do and it will not be accepted from anyone.
If you have an issue with another skipper, you should bring that
to my attention or to the attention of one of the advisory board
members or the commodore of your club.
Skippers who create an atmosphere of uneasiness or
anger will be taken aside and talked to by me or a member of the
advisory board. They will be asked to control their actions and
understand what it is they are doing. If their actions continue
to be a drain on the morale of the rest of the skippers, then there
can, unfortunately, be only one option left and that is to ask them
to leave the Association.
Please remember that we are not competing for money
or great rewards. This is a hobby to be shared with friends. Competition
is good and a winning attitude is encouraged, but not when it is
thrust in your face. Sail like gentlemen and we all win.
The Advisory Board Members
John Bottensek, Doug Bowe, Bill Gale, and Earl Mills
are your current Advisory Board members. They communicate with the
Chairman often and help with the decisions.
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